Have you ever wanted to reach for your Honey but weren't sure if the moment was right?
Have you ever felt depleted or disconnected, and needed a clear way to let your Honey know, and invite conversation and connection?
You can be a skilled communicator and still feel a flutter of nerves talking about intimate desire with your Honey. You don't want to feel rejected, or have them feel rejected; you don't want to feel pressured, or pressure them. HunnyMeter creates space to share where each of you stands, so you can check in with yourself and your Honey with openness and curiosity. It's for you, your Honey(s), and anyone who has a warm connection and wants a simple, playful, private way to keep it humming. It lets Honeys share where they're at, in any given moment, with the people who matter most.
You set your current level of desire, your BuzzLevel, a simple number from 0 to 10. Your Hive, your private group of you and your Honey(s), sees your updates instantly, and you see theirs.
Pick one link below and send the other to your Honey. You will see each other's updates in real time. This is a working prototype.
The full app will include personal profiles, green/yellow/red light preferences, and more, all private within your Hive.
A Hive is your private group, just you and your Honey, or however many people you're already connected with.
🐝 About HunnyMeter
Desire is fluid: it shifts with mood, stress, energy, health, the day you've had. Feeling great, confident, connected? You're buzzing. Having a rough go of it, feeling depleted? Not every day is a full comb kind of day.
Communicating your level of intimate desire, your BuzzLevel, with your Honey, whatever it may be in this moment, is a way of saying "I want to be close to you." Sharing it this simply provides a clear signal and creates a little space, to get curious, to connect, and to meet your Honey where they are.
A higher BuzzLevel is an invitation to share some honey. A lower BuzzLevel means today is a quieter day.
What it is
- A private, shared space for people who are already close
- A simple, honest signal that starts a conversation; it's not a replacement for conversation
- A place to share who you are: orientation, identity, preferences, green/yellow/red lights
- A helpful tool for ongoing cultivation of openness and clarity with your Honey
- Yours, your Hive, your people, on your terms
What it isn't
- No search, no way to look up another user by name, number, or anything else
- No public profiles. Your profile is only visible to people in your Hive
- No "people you may know." None of that, ever
- Not a dating app. You can't browse, discover, or be discovered by others, whether strangers or people you already know
- No in-app messaging. What happens next is between Honeys
HunnyMeter doesn't replace conversation. It opens the door.