Have you ever wanted to reach for your Honey but weren't sure if the moment was right?
Have you ever felt depleted or disconnected, and needed a clear way to let your Honey know, and invite conversation and connection?
You can be a skilled communicator and still feel a flutter of nerves talking about intimate desire with your Honey: you don't want to feel rejected, or have them feel rejected; you don't want to feel pressured, or pressure them. HunnyMeter creates the space to allow you to check in with yourself and your Honey with openness and curiosity. It's for you, your Honey(s), and anyone who has a warm connection and wants a simple, playful, private way to stay close with the people who matter most.
Pick one above and send the other to your Honey. This is a working prototype: you will see each other's updates in real time.
Set your current level of desire, your "BuzzLevel," a number from 0 to 10. Your Hive is your private group of you and your Honey(s). Everyone in your Hive sees each other's updates instantly.
The full app will include personal profiles, preferences, and more, all private within your Hive.
🐝 About HunnyMeter
Desire is fluid: it shifts with mood, stress, energy, health, the day you've had. Feeling great, confident, connected? You're buzzing. Having a rough go of it, feeling depleted? Not every day is a full comb kind of day.
Communicating your level of intimate desire, your BuzzLevel, with your Honey, whatever it may be in this moment, is a way of saying "I want to be close to you." Sharing it this simply provides a clear signal and creates a little space, to get curious, to connect, and to meet your Honey where they are.
What it is
- A private, shared space for people who are already close
- A simple, honest signal that starts a conversation; it's not a replacement for conversation
- A place to share who you are: orientation, identity, preferences, green/yellow/red lights
- A helpful tool for ongoing cultivation of openness and clarity with your Honey
What it isn't
- No search, no way to look up another user by name, number, or anything else
- No public profiles: profiles are only visible to those in your Hive
- Not a dating app or social network: you can't browse, discover, or be discovered by others
- No in-app messaging: what happens next is between Honeys
HunnyMeter doesn't replace conversation. It opens the door.